Date Night Question Game

Getting to know someone new or even really knowing someone you’ve been with for a while can feel amazing! But it’s also a challenge.

Asking the same questions day in, day out just doesn’t cut it. ‘How’s your day going?’, ‘how are you doing?’ and ‘what’s up?’ only gets you so far – these are the kinds of questions you’d ask a stranger. And cheesy chat up lines don’t make it past the first date.

Close relationships come from real, deep questions allowing you to really get to know a (potential) partner. Something new, exciting and personal. After all it’s a personal relationship you're after here! Right!?

I’ve compiled a list of questions to delve right into topics and conversations to help you build on your relationship and fall in love that little bit more!

So - put your phone away, banish your inhibitions and have fun! Feelings of closeness, connection and romance are guaranteed!

How well do we know each other? 

  1. If you could take me anywhere right now where would we go?
  2. What is your favourite film? 
  3. What did you want to be growing up?
  4. Do you have a secret talent? 
  5. Do you ever compare yourself with other people? 
  6. In what way are we the same? 
  7. In what way are we different? 
  8. What is your biggest fear?
  9. If you could live anywhere for a year where would you live? 
  10. Which of your parents are you most like? 
  11. If you could change your name what would you change it to? 
  12. Do you do anything really gross secretly? 
  13. What’s the most adventurous thing you’ve ever done? 
  14. What’s your all-time favourite song?
  15. What's the stupidest thing you’ve ever done? 
  16. What’s on your bucket list? 
  17. What are 3 things you're most glad you can do? 
  18. What is an ideal day for you? 
  19. Have you ever had a recurring dream? What was it? 

Longer answers

  1. Have you ever dreamt about me? 
  2. Do you trust me?
  3. Do you have any deal-breakers for relationships? 
  4. In what ways have I changed since we started going out?
  5. If safety wasn’t an issue which natural phenomenon would you want to experience? 
  6. What’s your idea of a romantic night? 
  7. When was the first time you knew you loved me? 
  8. What one skill do you wish you could wake up with tomorrow? 
  9. If the electricity went out for 24 hours what would you do in that time? 


  1. What song reminds you of us? 
  2. What's your favourite special thing that I’ve done for you? 
  3. What is your most embarrassing memory? 
  4. What’s something you’ll always remember? 
  5. What was your favourite class at school? 
  6. Did you collect stuff as a child? 
  7. What was your favourite age?
  8. What was your favourite pasta dish growing up?
  9. What were 3 of your happiest moments in life?

Conversation starters 

  1. Have you ever been extremely angry? 
  2. Which friend would you prefer to be stuck on a desert island with? 
  3. What would you do with £1 million 
  4. If you had to spend £1 billion in a day how would you do it? 
  5. If you could write a note to your younger self, in only 3 words, what would you say?
  6. If someone was killed in front of you, but a perfect, right down to the atomic level, copy of them was created would they be the same person? 
  7. What’s something you never want to do ever again? 
  8. Which superpower would you rather have?
  9. You’re alone in your home and it’s on fire. You have time to save one item, what would it be? 
  10. If a baby grew up in the wild with no human contact, how human would they be without societal influence and culture?
  11. Is intelligence or wisdom more useful? 
  12. If you could trade lives with someone for a day who would you trade with? 
  13. If we made a film together, what would the title be? 
  14. If you were in prison, what would it be for?


  1. What is your favourite pasta shape?
  2. What food reminds you of me?
  3. If you could eat only one meal for the rest of your life what would it be?
  4. If you were on death row what would your last meal be?
  5. What is your favourite pasta dish?
  6. What’s the weirdest thing you’ve ever eaten?
  7. Would you eat bugs if you were lost and hungry in a forest?
  8. What’s one food you really want to try?
  9. Share every meal or share nothing?


  1. What is your favourite sexual memory of us?
  2. When’s your favourite time of day to be intimate? 
  3. Do you get jealous when I talk to other attractive people?
  4. What’s your favourite sexual fantasy? 
  5. What would you like more of in our relationship? 
  6. What turns you on the most?
  7. When was one time you looked at me and thought ‘damn you're sexy’. 

The Future 

  1. How long do you think people should wait before having kids? 
  2. Would you like to live abroad? 
  3. How do you want to be remembered when you die? 
  4. If you could change careers what would you do instead?
  5. Do you want to get married ever? 
  6. Would you rather have 7 children or none? 
  7. What's one thing you hope will change during our lifetime? 
  8. What do you imagine our future will look like?